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Interview with author Vinayak Nadkarni #WriteBravely

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This year, three of my co-authors from the widely popular Indian anthology 'Love Stories That Touched My Heart' have come out with their debut novel. So it is a great pleasure to feature them here at the blog as they begin this new journey.

Presenting author Vinayak Nadkarni.



About myself:

I would like to describe myself as an aspiring artist trapped in an engineer’s body and labeled by the world as an IT Professional. I am currently living in Munich, Germany and I was born and studied in Hubli, Karnataka. I have always found the art of storytelling captivating. Be it through the words or through the stage-acts, I always fancy my chances. I achieved my first major break-through when Penguin India published my short story in the year 2012 in their anthology – Love Stories That Touched My Heart. This book went on to become a bestseller. You can get in touch with me and also read some of the sample stories of my debut book by visiting http://vinayakwrites.in/

My debut book:

My debut book is a work of fiction and titled Why So Twisted?  It is a multi-genre anthology of simple but yet skewed short stories. This book touches many subjects – from romance to social issues; from marriages to extra-marital affairs. However, the one unique thing about this anthology is that every story has an unexpected plot twist which would surprise the reader. Sometimes, it’s the protagonist’s clever mind, at times, it’s his kind heart. Otherwise, it’s the heartless destiny, or occasionally, it’s the writing style too, which brings the fascinating metamorphosis of the plot and will lead you to ask the question, Why So Twisted?


Authors you love reading:


I enjoy reading short stories more than novels. So naturally, Jeffrey Archer and O.Henry have made a greater impact on me. In addition, I love the simple story telling techniques of Sudha Murthy as well.

Link to buy:

The Kindle and paperback versions of the book are already available worldwide. In the first weekend,  the book entered Amazon ranking #5 under ‘Foreign-Short-Stories’ category on Amazon.de and currently it is trending at #32 on Amazon.com. In India, you can buy the e-book hereon Amazon.in and the paperback copies will be available on Amazon and Flipkart by 14th of August, 2017.


 ‘I am taking part in The Write Tribe Festival of Words #6'

I decided to subvert the themes of Days 4 & 5 and instead go with the theme of Day 6 (Interview someone) for these three authors. You can find other posts related to today's theme of 'write a letter' here.

My posts for this #WriteBravely #FestivalOfWords include:
A Family Unrelated by Blood (Theme: Treasures)
What's on my Workplace Desk (Theme: Resources)
Tharavadu Hotel - a Kannur Seafood Delight (Theme: Maps)
Interview - Author Arka Datta 
Interview - Author Vinayak Nadkarni


Interview with author Manaswita Ghosh #WriteBravely

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This year, three of my co-authors from the widely popular Indian anthology 'Love Stories That Touched My Heart' have come out with their debut novel. So it is a great pleasure to feature them here at the blog as they begin this new journey.

Presenting author Manaswita Ghosh.




Hi Manaswita. Could you tell us a little bit about yourself.


I am an independent media professional based in Calcutta. I write about travel and edit fiction. I have worked with The Telegraph (ABP Group) as a journalist, writing and editing news for the newspaper's digital front. I am extremely fond of poetry and prose, and I have been published by Penguin Books India, the British Council, First Step Publishers, Talent Flush Creations, and a bunch of others in the past. Currently I work with a bunch of publishing houses and travel portals. 


What is your debut book Solitude Revisited About?


SOLITUDE REVISITED is a collection of short stories. There are ten short stories and nine very short stories. Most of the stories are about real people and incidents, as I believed my first book had to be as real as it could be. I have given the best of me, writing about people I have known and meet everyday. It always surprises me that how no matter what problems life throws at us, some of us get up to fight every single day. This book is about them. What happens in the end is a different issue. Sometimes, the struggle leads to the kind of results we seek, sometimes it doesn't. Some of my stories don't have a happy ending simply because life isn't fair, so it's best kept real.

SOLITUDE REVISITED is my first complete collection of short stories. I have been working on it or quite some time, and finally managed to finish it last year. The manuscript was taken on by StoryMirror and published this year. 


I hear there has been some good news on the personal front?


This year, I got engaged to the most wonderful and amazing person I have known for a while. My book has been well received by the readers since its release, which makes me immensely happy. And along with all the good things that have been going on, I have had the courage to quit a well-paying, secure job at ABP to do something I had always wanted to do, which was to edit fiction. My decision hasn't disappointed me, and I am satisfied with the work I am doing now.

Where can we get your book? 


You can buy Solitude Revisited here.





 ‘I am taking part in The Write Tribe Festival of Words #6'

You can find other posts related to today's theme of 'interview someone' here.

My posts for this #WriteBravely #FestivalOfWords include:
A Family Unrelated by Blood (Theme: Treasures)
What's on my Workplace Desk (Theme: Resources)
Tharavadu Hotel - a Kannur Seafood Delight (Theme: Maps)
Interview - Author Arka Datta 
Interview - Author Vinayak Nadkarni
Interview - Author Manaswita Ghosh

Muzhappilangad Beach Fiesta 2017

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The Muzhappilangad Beach festival is back.
After a brief hiatus for the last few years, the fun, colours, rides and competitions return to the popular beach in Kannur. 

The Muzhappilangad Beach Fiesta 2017 is rightly positioned to take advantage of the upcoming Onam and Bakrid holidays in God's Own Country, beginning from August 31 and continuing till September 10.

The Muzhappilangad Beach Fiesta 2017 is rightly positioned to take advantage of the upcoming Onam and Bakrid holidays in God's Own Country, beginning from August 31 and continuing till September 10

Earlier versions of the festival have been colourful affairs, with families and children enjoying themselves both on the shore and wading in the waters as well.

In addition to the usual culprits like trade kiosks, food stalls and amusements rides, there will also be special programs this time around including daily competitions for children and adults, cinematic dances and gaana melas by various troupes right there on the beach. 

This year, the festival will also play host to an auto show featuring the top automobile and motorbike companies of the country, ranging from Volkswagon to Harley Davidson.

A key highlight of this year's Muzhappilangad-Beach festival is the first 3 D kite festival in Kerala from September 5 to 7.


Another key highlight of this year's festival is the first 3-D Kite Festival in Kerala from September 5 to 7. Innovative illuminated LED kites to be flown at night, inflatable kites, train and stunt kites... the list of special attractions in this sector sound really attractive. There are even fun kite making workshops for children.

For those who are not aware of it, Muzhappilangad beach holds a few accolades that make it an awesome tourist destination. 


Considered one of India's most beautiful beaches, it has been featured as being one of the top six beaches for driving in the world by no less than BBC. 

Considered one of India's most beautiful beaches, Muzhappilangad has been featured as being one of the top six beaches for driving in the world by no less than BBC.
Image Source: KeralaTaxis


Muzhappilangad-Beach-Kannur in fact, the longest drive-in beach in Asia, stretching up to 4 kms. Its unique sand allows for a lot of drifting and wheeling right beside the water!
It is, in fact, the longest drive-in beach in Asia, stretching up to 4 kms. Its unique sand allows for a lot of drifting and wheeling right beside the water!

Dharmadam island lies a 100 meters south of this beach and during low tides, you can actually walk to the island through the waters. 

Dharmadam
Image Source: MyLandMyKerala
Can you imagine walking through the water right up to that island?


The boat journey between Muzhappilangad Beach and Dharmadam is fun too as you will often find dolphins swimming right beside you in the water.

Accessibility 

By road:
Parallel to National Highway 66.

By train:
From Kannur railway station: 15 km.
From Thalasserry railway station: 12 km.

You can find it on Google Maps here.


The Muzhappilangad Beach Fiesta 2017 begins on August 31, 2017 (with the Kannur Collector and MLA scheduled for the inauguration) and promises to be a lively joyous affair allowing the inner child in us all to participate and enjoy a fun evening at this amazing beach with family, friends and loved ones.

Dharmadam-Muzhappilangad-Beach-Kannur-Drive-In-Fiesta-2017-festival
For further details, you can contact the Festival Committee Chairman Dr Hanish Haneefa.

Why a car air purifier may not be a luxury but a necessity instead...

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I remember a time when having an air conditioner or a television set was a luxury for a middle class family. A time before that when having an Ambassador was a status symbol. The difference there was that they were non-essential objects that slowly became a necessity in our lives as the years moved on. They were, however, not life-saving.

The simple act of breathing is. And whether you are aware of it or not, if you live in any large city in India, the chances are your lungs are already taking in dangerous levels of toxic particulate matter every day. 

What is the big deal about these particulate matters we breathe in? 


As per the latest updates from the data collected by the Global Burden of Disease Project (GBD), the official statistics stand at 55 lakh premature deaths every year due to air pollution alone.  Of those, 12 lakh who die, including small children exposed to this polluted air, are Indians. The GBD project placed air pollution as the 4th greatest risk of death, higher than malnutrition, obesity, alcohol and drugs.

You need to realize that unlike the matter itself which is tiny, the problems that arise from it are huge. 

The number of Particulate matter per cubic meter (PM 2.5) that gets inhaled when you breathe in slowly settles down in the lungs over time. They impair your ability to breathe and deliver oxygen to the rest of your body, affect your heart and yes, over time, they do lead to cancer of the lungs. This number which should ideally be 25 can go as high as 300 on a bad day in Delhi. 

With the increasing population density in large Indian cities, one of the biggest culprits behind air pollution remains traffic pollution. Stuck in the snail-paced crawl for hours, you are not protected from these particulate matter merely by passive methods like closing the windows and turning the air conditioner on, I fear.

Scarily, you may be exposing your family to 9-12 times higher pollution from inside the car, based on former UK goverment chief scientific advisor Professor Sir David King's damning reports

And yet, we know we are at a stage where we cannot really live without traveling by car, whether it be dropping the children at school or going off to work. In such scenarios, you need to actively combat and filter out these air pollutants inside the car the same way you do for your drinking water.

So what is the solution?


Products like the Philips GoPure SlimLine 230 Car air purifier actively remove fine particles and toxic gases from inside, filtering the air within entirely in just 13 minutes. 

The unique filtration tech by Philips removes particles like PM2.5 as well as toxins with a Clean Air Delivery Rate of 10m3/hour to ensure the health of your family.


The air purifier is designed to keep you not just healthy but relaxed and stress-free, as it operates automatically and allows you to focus on driving while also refreshing your air with a natural fragrance


The air purifier removes dust, allergens, smoke, odours, bacteria and virus all while snugly fitting anywhere in your car with a diminutive weight of 800 gms.



Suitable for children, pregnant women, allergy sufferers, asthma patients and owners of pets,  it does more than filter, of course. It also senses the air-particles around you and gives you updated indicators on the quality.

That blue colour indicates 'Excellent' air quality

We are a long way away from undoing the calamitous air we have wrought upon ourselves.  

The long term damage done from air pollution is often catastrophic and irreversible. It is as devastating for a young child who has to suffer acute episodes of breathlessness growing up as it is for an elderly Indian who has worked so hard for the country for decades as you grew up only to be unable to take a deep breath anymore now that his lungs have weakened. We don't talk about it. But we should. 

We have a responsibility to keep our loved ones safe. Earlier, we could cite ignorance as a reason not to care about air pollution and how it affects us. That excuse holds good no longer. Air pollution is here. It is affecting us each and every day, killing us silently from within.


Still not convinced? 
These are the Air pollution levels in India on 16 August 2017.
You can check today's levels here 

We can prevent air pollution from affecting us though. 

Healthy air is not a luxury. It is a necessity. 
The best time to invest in it was yesterday. The next best time... is now.


The Philips GoPure SlimLine 230 Air Purifier can be bought online here.

The Redemption of Ku Klux Klan Leader Johnny Lee Clary #Watwb

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History has never been kind to African Americans but even within that narrow field, the hate mongering and vile assaults by the Ku Klux Klan (KKK) were the stuff of nightmare. The KKK were (and still remain) a domestic terrorist group whose sole purpose was eradicating the freed slaves following the Civil War.

But I want to talk to you about two people: one of the heads of the Ku Klux Klan Johnny Lee Clary and the man he despised for so many years, Reverend Wade Watts.

First Encounter: The Radio Debate


In 1979, when Imperial Wizard (equivalent to being a national leader of the Ku Klux Klan) Johnny Lee Clary met Wade Watts at a radio station for a debate on racism, his first gesture set the tone for what was to come. He withdrew his hand after accidentally shaking the hand of Watts recalling the Klan rule that 'physical touch of a non-white is pollution.' Instead of being insulted, the Reverend laughed and consoled him saying 'he need not worry as his black wouldn't come off.'

The debate was filled with slurs and insults heaped upon Wade by Clary. And through it all, Wade smiled and said 'Jesus loves you.' When Johnny could take no more, he stood to leave. Wade stopped him before he left the station and showed him a baby abandoned by a black teenage boy and a white girl. The Reverend had adopted the baby as his own and to Johnny he asked,"You say you hate all black people. Tell me, how can you hate this child?"

The Reverend's final words to the Klan leader who ran out the door that day was 'God Bless you, Johnny.  You can't do enough to me to make me hate you. I'm gonna love you and I will pray for you whether you like it or not.'

Reverend Wade Watts to KKK Imperial Wizard Johny Lee Clary - You can't do enough to me to make me hate you. I'm gonna love you and I will pray for you whether you like it or not.'

Waves after Wave of Hatred

Angry at being embarrassed on national radio, KKK leader Johnny Lee Clary responded the only way he knew how. Along with the Klan, Johnny would drive by Wade's house, throwing garbage all over his lawn and showering death threats. When Wade did not take the bait, Johny upped the ante.

Dressed in their iconic ceremonial robes, the KKK came to the Reverend's doorstep one night with flaming torches and dared him to come out to meet them. Reverend Wade calmly opened the door, stared at these masked men in robes and simply said 'Boys. Halloween is 4 months away. I don't have any trick-or-treats for you. Come back in October.' before calmly closing the door on their stunned faces.

At a loss, the Klan asked Johnny what he wanted to do next. So a few nights later, they made a huge cross and set it on fire outside the Reverend's window, another of the most iconic fear-inducing tactics associated with the KKK. The Reverend once more came out and this time asked them if they wanted hot dogs and marshmallows for their barbecue.

Stunned by his inability to ruffle Wade, the Klan went a step further. Johnny burnt down Wade's church. As the fire was being put out by law enforcement, Johnny called up and said in a muffled voice "Hey boy. You better be afraid. We are coming to get you. You don't know who we are but we know who you are." Before he could finish his threat, the Reverend replied, "Hello Johnny. A man like you takes the time to call me. I am so honoured. Let me do something for you." And then he started to pray to the Lord to forgive the Imperial Wizard who had just burned his church down.

The Chicken Incident

At this point, Johnny was confused but he was not ready to give up his hatred for African Americans or the Reverend in particular. One day, when they saw Wade go to a restaurant, 30 members of the Klan entered and surrounded his table. Johnny told Wade "Boy, this restaurant is for white folk only, not your kind. So I am going to make you a promise." Pointing to the chicken on the Reverend's plate, he said,"I am going to do the same thing to you that you do to the chicken. So you think real hard before you touch that chicken."

Reverend Wade Watts looked at the chicken, then the thirty men surrounding him and finally at his long standing nemesis Johnny. He then picked up the chicken and kissed it.

Everyone watching in the restaurant burst out laughing, including to Johnny's chagrin, his own Klan members. Unable to control their laughter, Johnny hurdled them out of the restaurant as the Reverend continued with his meal. That day, the Klan stopped harassing the Reverend.

Redemption

In the years that followed, Johny found his disillusionment with the Klan growing as he grew tired of hate. At the back of his mind, he remembered one old black man who had defeated his Klan, simply because the latter used his heart to stand up to their brawn. He wanted to make amends and help share love instead of the hate he had been spreading. He burned his coveted Klan robe in the backyard and left the Klan, resurfacing two years later as a preacher.

When the time came, he returned to his town but found none ready to accept him in his new robes. So Johnny turned to the only person in his surroundings capable of helping him - Reverend Wade Watts. The Reverend welcomed his old nemesis with open arms and so it came to be that Johnny Lee Clary gave his first sermon in the very same church (now rebuilt) that he had burned down years ago, a lone white man now standing in front of a crowd of annoyed black men and women.

That day in the church, with Wade by his side, Johnny won back the community with his heartfelt talk of finding himself. When Johnny made the altar call for anyone wanting to turn over their life to Jesus, among those children who stepped forward was a 14 year old girl. When Johnny noticed the Reverend crying and inquired about it, Wade pointed out that this girl - Tia - was the same adopted baby of the Reverend who Johnny had first turned his back on at the radio station years ago.  

Children-are-not-born-racist-Johnny-Lee-Clary-evangelist-KKK

Wade and Johnny would go on to become best friends. 

Wade mentored him on his new journey finding peace and even made Johnny the godfather of Tia. The two often went on the road together as evangelical preachers, spreading love and even holding rallies of their own in cities where they knew the Klan was gathering.

Their time together as friends was short though. When Reverend Watts passed away a few years later in 1998, Johnny, now an ordained minister and evangelist, gave the eulogy. As he went to shut the lid on the Reverend's casket, he fulfilled a promise he had made years ago in a restaurant standing over a plate of chicken: he kissed his friend on the forehead as he bade him goodbye.  

Johnny continued the good fight as a civil rights activist till the day he died in 2014, preaching love and talking about racism on many talk shows and platforms.

Why I want you to remember the real life story of Reverend Wade Watts and Johnny Lee Clary


Reverend Watts represented everything the Klan hated. And they were hellbent on destroying him. Yet, the jovial man beat the feared Ku Klux Klan without ever raising his hand against them. He beat them with forgiveness and humour.

In his ideals, he reminds me of the quote from his own close friend Martin Luther King Jr.

Quote - Martin Luther King Jr  Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that.  Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. 
Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.


You can listen to Johnny Lee Clary tell his version here in his TED talk. I sincerely hope you take the time out to come back and listen to this amazing video of their friendship, filled with so many moving anecdotes.





There is a lot more kindness where that came from. 
I have compiled over 30 heroes of kindness and compassion this year. You can find the list here



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#HaveASafeJourney - The World's First Anthology on Road Safety

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Have a Safe Journey, a collection of short stories published by Amaryllis, is a collaborative initiative of the NHP Center along with the Indian Ministry of Road Transport and Highways and the Mahindra automobile group.

Have A Safe Journey is the first anthology in the world that deals exclusively with the topic of road safety. It features popular authors Anand Neelkantan, Ashwin Sanghi, Kiran Manral



Why it is Unique

Have A Safe Journey is the first anthology in the world that deals exclusively with the topic of road safety. The stories here are strong and heartfelt, dealing with themes of loss, missed chances, hope and redemption along the journey of these roads and highways.

It is a unique attempt to move away from the normal discussions on road safety that usually deal with studies and statistics. Instead, with this anthology, the aim is to showcase the emotional and personal aspects of this subject that affects millions of Indians every year.

In doing so, it puts you in the metaphorical driver's seat, making you realize how vulnerable you really are and how small measures taken by you can save not just your lives but the ones of your loved ones and fellow citizens.

It is heartening to see no less than the Indian Ministry of Road Transport and Highways (with a special foreword by Nitin Gadkari, Union Minister for Road Transport, Highways and Shipping) help in this aspect as they seek to use literature as a means to get the message through to readers of all ages.

Union Minister Nitin Gadkari's message for the unique Indian anthology on road safety, Have A Safe Journey


Both Nitin Gadkari and author Tuhin Sinha talk of their personal near-death experiences following road traffic accidents and how it changed their perspectives.

The Mahindra group too partnered in this unique venture with Executive Chairman Anand Mahindra rightly discussing the importance of understanding the emotional and personal aspects of road traffic accidents instead of just numbers and statistics in his message.

Anand Mahindra's message for the unique anthology on road safety, Have A Safe Journey

Contributing Authors

Some of India's biggest literary names have contributed as well to this collection with the aim of helping instill the importance of road safety upon their fans and followers across the country. Popular authors who feature in this book:



My Personal Connection

While I have been published in over 20 anthologies in the past, contributing to this book means a lot to me.



My story 'The Good Samaritans' deals with an aspect of road safety closest to my medical profession - the golden hour a.k.a. the first hour after an accident during which time more than 50% of all road traffic accident victims can still be saved with proper measures... and a few good Samaritans.  

It is wonderful as well to see fellow co-authors Arvind Passey and Dr Ketaki Patwardhan alongside me in this anthology; familiar fellow riders on our own literary highway.

Link to buy:

This unique venture #HaveASafeJourney, supported by the Indian Ministry of Road Transport and Highways along with the Mahindra Group, can be bought here on Amazon.



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"There is some good in this world, Mr Frodo"

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Frodo: “What are we holding onto, Sam?” Sam: “That there’s some good in this world, Mr. Frodo, and it’s worth fighting for.”  - The Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers

Frodo: “What are we holding onto, Sam?”
Sam: “That there’s some good in this world, Mr. Frodo, and it’s worth fighting for.”
 - The Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers

More relevant in today's world than it has been for decades. 
More essential that people remember these words as well and hold on. 


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The Two Women in my Life #FridayReflections

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I reach for her but stay my hand as she shakes her head.
"Will we ever be together?" I ask hopefully.
I know the woman in crimson too yearns to be with me again but she needs to be sure that it will just be the two of us. She points to the woman in black clinging onto my arm.
"Divorce her and I will come."
Her eyes water as I hesitate and she turns away.
"You know where to find me." She whispers before disappearing into the darkness.

Six winters have passed but True Love's crimson plea still haunts me. I reach out once more, hoping she will be there. But icy fingers greet my own and my heart turns to lead as a familiar face appears to dissipate my loneliness.
The woman who never leaves my side.
The woman in black.
Lady Past.




Authors note:
This post is part of #FridayFotoFiction Held by Mayuri and Tina


Tina Basu
You can find other posts for this photo prompt here


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Also linking to #FridayReflections where the prompt for this week is 'Alone Together'
Living my Imperfect Life

How to Help A Friend Who Shares Suicidal Thoughts on Social media #SuicidePrevention

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The theme this year (2017) for 'World Suicide Prevention Day' is 'Take A Minute, Change a Life."

Suicide survivors often talk of how they hoped even a single friend would respond. Sadly, even today, we lose good souls to suicide because friends did not identify those cries for help or even more tragically, did not make a basic effort to just talk for a few minutes.

Like with everything else in life, social media has insinuated its tentacles even into these cries for help in today's day and age. Go through your time line - from Facebook and Twitter to Instagram posts or messages in Whatsapp chat groups - and look beyond the smiley faces that punctuate a sad comment. You may actually find it staring back at you right now - a friend's desperate cry to be saved.

How to Help A Friend Who Shares Suicidal Thoughts on Social media #SuicidePrevention - World Suicide Prevention Day - Godyears

What do you do when you come across a friend whose social media post suggests they may be considering suicide? 



01. Choose to help them.

The first real step is the most simplest and yet, the one least done. Yes, social media is a vast ocean and there are other closer friends and family for this person. You may not even be close. But you are a friend. 

It will not hurt you to type down 140 characters inquiring about their well being. It is ten seconds for you. It maybe the difference between life and death for them.

02. Be compassionate.

When they talk of how they feel, be kind even if you disagree with their interpretation of their problems. Reply with 'I am there to listen to you', 'I am sorry you have been feeling this way' and 'You matter to me'.

Do not mock their feelings. Avoid statements like 'Others have it worse than you', 'It is just a silly exam/guy/girl' or 'God will not forgive you.' Making someone who is on the edge feel even more guilty is never a good idea.   

03. Assess and Alert

I wish kind words were enough but yes, the reality is that by the time someone posts something sorrowful on social media, the pain has overwhelmed them. You need to be frank with them and ask them directly if they have been thinking of suicide

If so, assess if they have the means to commit suicide (poison, sharp instruments.) Again, you can directly ask this question. Often you will be surprised by the honesty of their answers when the right question is asked in this vulnerable state. It is imperative that you understand that you are not putting the idea in their head by talking to them of suicide.

If there is an immediate danger, consider alerting friends on their time line who may be nearby to their location. Inform them of your conversation and make them aware of the urgency of the situation.

While you may know all the tricks for getting Facebook likes and shares, allow me to add a life-saving addition to your knowledge - Facebook's Page to Report Suicidal Content.     


04. Help them connect to Suicide Helplines

One of the saddest facts in Suicide Prevention is the fact that none of us - NONE OF US - know or have the numbers of suicide helplines in our contact lists. If you find your friend willing to consider talking about his/her feelings but unwilling to trust friends and family, redirect them to a suicide helpline which allows the benefit of anonymity.

Please note here that you must be clear to your friend that you are not abandoning him/her. Make a deal to reconnect once they have finished talking to the helpline.

For your convenience, I am sharing the numbers I have come across for Suicide Prevention Helplines in India.

A list of the Suicide Prevention Helpline phone numbers in India
I chose a blue candle for this image because as per 'Candle Magic' based on colour therapy, the blue candle signifies 'Opening Lines of Communication'

Aasra (Mumbai) 02227546669
Icall (Mumbai) 02225521111
Nagpur Suicide Prevention Helpline 8888817666
Connecting India 9922001122, 18002094353
Lifeline (Kolkata) 03324637401, 03324637432
Saath (Ahmedabad) 07926305544, 07926300222
Roshni (Secunderabad) 04066202000 
Maitreyi (Pondicherry) 0413339999
Jeevan (Jamshedpur) 06576453841
Sneha (Chennai) 04424640050
Sumaitri (Delhi) 01123389090
Cooj (Goa) 08322252525
Pratheeksha (Kochi) 04842448830
Maithri (Kochi) 04842540530
Thanal (Calicut) 04952371100
1Life 7893078930

I am also redirecting you to the Emotional Support Helpline Directory app launched today (10 September 2017) that gives you an even more elaborate list of all the suicide helplines in the country. Please download it. It is, literally, a life saver.

05. Follow up the next day.

I always come back to that inspiring sentence which was the campaign of 'To Write Love on Her Arms' in 2015: "We will see you tomorrow." Show them that someone is looking forward to hearing from them the next day. 
It is a few kind words via direct messages or a call at most. But you can save their life by reminding them of what they have forgotten - that they matter in this world.

Suicide accounts for a life every 40 seconds globally. WHO states that for every adult who committed suicide, there are 20 more who attempted it. Think of those numbers. In 2012, India was estimated to have the highest number of suicides in the world by WHO. 
We must do better if we are to save our friends. 
I hope when the time comes, you will hear their indirect cries not just in real life but on social media too. I hope you will make the time for them and help them off their ledge. I hope you will inspire them to live once more.

I will see you tomorrow, my friend.



Authors note:

Every year on September 10 - World Suicide Prevention Day, I write on the topic of Suicide Prevention. 



The Chronological Order of the Marvel Cinematic Universe

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While talking to a dear friend recently, I was surprised to find that while she knew of most of the characters from the Marvel Cinematic Universe movies, she had not had the chance to see all of them. Having started late on the 'Marvel movie fan club', she was understandably lost now, what with a decade of movies to catch up on.

With less than 2 months to go for Thor: Ragnarok (which going by the trailers and under the maverick direction of the hilarious Taika Waititi, looks likely to be an instant classic), I figured I would help those who wanted to catch up and be up to date on the Marvel world before Thor 3 arrives.

The order for you to watch the Marvel movies based on chronological events would be...

Why knowing your Marvel Movie Characters Matters Right Now

This matters not just for watching Thor 3 and understanding the presence of the Hulk in the movie but also because as I mentioned earlier, the story line that has spanned a decade begins its final descent next year with the main villain Thanos finally coming to Earth to get the Infinity Stones & Gauntlet and thus facing every single superhero we have met in one of the biggest budgeted films this decade - Avengers: Infinity War.

Iron Man, Captain America and the rest whom we have met a decade ago are not the same individuals anymore, their motivation, allegiances and even friendships having gone through some serious twists and turns over the course of these movies.

The first trailer for Avengers: Infinity War will likely arrive close to the release of Thor: Ragnarok in October and the description (available online) features everyone. Makes sense thus to catch up on your Marvel Cinematic Universe story line then, does it not?

Based on the chronological events of the story (and not release dates), the order for you to watch the Marvel Cinematic Universe would be:


Captain America: The First Avenger (2011)
Iron Man (2008)
Iron Man 2 (2010)
The Incredible Hulk (2008)
Thor (2011)
The Avengers (2012)
Iron Man 3 (2013)
Thor: The Dark World (2013)
Guardians of the Galaxy (2014) & Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2 (2017) *
Captain America: The Winter Soldier (2014)
Avengers: Age of Ultron (2015)
Ant-Man (2015)
Captain America: Civil War (2016)
Doctor Strange (2016)
Spiderman: Homecoming (2017)

Glitches in the timeline system:

  • I placed an asterix besides Guardians of the Galaxy (2014) and Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2 (2017) because while the chronological difference is barely 4 months between the two films, it is tough to place them alongside the above timeline since the events happen in a different set of planets altogether. They likely occur after Thor 2 (considering the end-credit cameo of the Collector.) 
  • Between Guardians of the Galaxy 2, Captain America: Civil War & Spiderman: Homecoming, there are time line errors if you really scrutinize them but they do not throw you for a loop.

What's coming up next?

The movies that have been green-lighted so far for the coming years by Marvel are:

Thor: Ragnarok (October 25/ November 3 2017)
Black Panther (2018)
Avengers: Infinity War (2018)
Ant-Man and the Wasp (2018)
Captain Marvel (2019)
Avengers 4 (2019)
SpiderMan 2 (2019)

So what are you waiting for? There are just 50 days left for Thor and Hulk to (first fight with each other and then) team up once more and take on Hela, the Goddess of Death as you can see in that gorgeously fun trailer below.
If you haven't started yet, get on board the Marvel Movie Express now and get to know the heroes that everyone loves.



Are you a Marvel Movie fan? Which have been your top 3 favourite movies from the list above till date?

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The Things We Want #ShortFiction

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"I want it." the little boy said, licking his lips as he stared at the last slice of bread lying on the plate. His mother's eyes however rested on the hollowed out shape her son had playfully carved into the bread.
"I want it too." she replied wistfully, her eyes never leaving the heart within the bread as she stroked the empty spot on her left finger where, a lifetime ago, a wedding ring had rested, blissfully unaware.


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The medical student saving the village that India forgot #SaveRajghat

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Dr Ashwani Kumar Parashar is a final year MBBS student from Dhaulpur, pursuing his graduation from SMS Medical College, Jaipur. He is unlike any medical student you have ever met though. 


Meet Ashwani Parashar, the 22 year old medical student who is doing more than any Indian today to save Rajghat, the village that India forgot.

You see, this 22 year old is doing more than any Indian today to save every human being in Rajghat, the village that India forgot. Over to Ashwani.


Help us understand the Rajghat issue. 

People know of a Rajghat that is in Delhi and a memorial to Late Sh. Mahatma Gandhi, but there is one more in India - a Rajghat, a small village at the banks of Chambal in Dhaulpur, which even 70 years after Independence, is covered in darkness and despair.
This Rajghat is devoid of all basic infrastructure to sustain Life (as per The Fundamental right to Dignified Life Under Article 21) with no connectivity to other districts. 

How bad is it? Can you give us an idea?


The reality of Rajghat is tragic and horrifying. 
  • None of the government's schemes have been implemented.
  • There are no roads, lights or basic medical facilities.
  • Water, water everywhere but not a drop to drink around the banks of the Chambal. The villagers have no alternative but to drink water from the Chambal directly, in which the DEAD BODIES of humans as well as animals can be seen floating. 
  • There are frequent crocodiles attacks on the villagers. 
  • Only 2 males have gotten married in the last 20 years.
  • Some have cellphones, but to get them charged, either they have to head towards the city or they have to buy a battery.


And yes, once the sun sets, Rajghat is lapped in utter darkness.

At the age of 21, you filed a PIL (Public Interest Litigation) on their behalf. What is the present state of the Rajghat case? 

Presently with the help of Judiciary, Executive and local people, the voice of Rajghat is triumphantly rising in the hearts of fellow citizen. Unconditional support has come in the form of financial aid, legal advice, self help groups, NGO's and philanthropists who've extended their kind assistance in not only raising awareness but also aiding the infrastructure.

Recently, High court has issued a notice to The CHIEF SECRETARY of Rajasthan, and has asked to answer within 6 weeks in reference to the PIL that I filed in the high court. We are planning to implant a solar energy based electricity and Solar based water filtration system. Now, people from across the borders are extending their helping hands.

जिस गांव में कभी जानवर भी नहीं जाते थे, उस गांव में आज अधिकारीयों और मंत्रियों की रेलमपेल लगी हुई है।
I hope कि राजघाट में अब सुबह होने वाली है। आजादी के 70 साल बाद आज राजघाट सच में "आजाद"होने वाला है।

(The same village where once even animals never went, today sees a line of bureaucrats and ministers queuing up to help. I hope that at least now, Rajghat will have a morning after this long darkness. After 70 years of freedom for the rest of India, it looks like finally the people of the village too will get their freedom.)

Meet Ashwani Parashar, the 22 year old medical student who is doing more than any Indian today to save Rajghat, the village that India forgot.

What is the most memorable incident that has happened during the period of your mission yet?


One of the most memorable incidents that I recall was when I was sitting with an IAS officer and was discussing the issues of Rajghat. He sarcastically asked me "अश्वनी, सिर्फ राजघाट ही क्यों? ऐसे तो कई गांव हैं। फिर आप सिर्फ राजघाट के लिए ही क्यों परेशान हो?" 

("Ashwani, why are you so bothered only about Rajghat? There are so many such villages?")

To this I replied"सर मैं मानता हूँ कि राजघाट इकलौता नहीं है, ऐसे हजारों राजघाट और होंगे, बेशक होंगे। माना पूरे  देश में ऐसे 1 लाख गांव होंगे। मैं सनकी हूं, इसमें से 1 गांव कम कर जाऊँगा, 99 हजार 999 छोड़ जाऊँगा। कल कोई और सनकी आएगा, वो 1 और कम कर देगा। ये ऐसे ही कम हो सकते हैं। सिर्फ यह सोचकर कि ऐसे तो कई गांव हैं, इन्हें कौन सही करेगा, हम हाथ बांध कर बैठे तो नहीं सकते ना !! किसी ना किसी को तो शुरूआत करनी होगी ना! किसी मसीहा का इंतजार क्यों करूँ? Why not me. चलिए मैं ही शुरू करता हूँ ।"

(To this I replied, "Sir, I agree that there may be thousands of such Rajghats, perhaps lakhs even. Even if I can reduce the number by even 1, then there will only be 99,999 villages to save. Tomorrow, someone else will come to save another. This is the only way we can save them. Simply saying that there are so many villages so why bother, nothing will change. Someone has to make the start. Why should we wait for a messiah? Why not me? So I decided to begin.")
  
As soon as the words left my mouth, I actually regretted it. I was sure he would throw me out of the room, you see! After all, he - as a bureaucrat himself - was a part of the administration against whom I had raised my voice for Rajghat. But he gave me a strong positive reaction by saying:

"Dr. Ashwani, if you are searching for that one person that will change the life of despair of Rajghat, take a look in the mirror. It's YOU." He also added "The moment you are ready to quit is usually the moment right before miracle. Therefore don't give up ever on any issue. And as far as Rajghat is concerned I will join you in this mission." 

He not only helped me with legal aid but also conveyed the problems and suggestions to the governments of the state as well as union.

It seems amazing that at such a young age, you are doing so much for the people of Rajghat while also balancing the hard stress of being a medical student? I know I could never have done what you are doing back in my days as a student. How do you handle such stress?


My parents have supported me throughout this as have friends. I've managed my time in such a way that I optimally use my spare and recreational time to balance studies as well as my mission to save Rajghat. And yes, when the stress gets too much, I do unwind, travel and enjoy with my friends like any regular college student. I am no different.  

Whenever in doubt and fear as well as surrounded by thoughts to drop out the fight, I just recall GandhiJi's Talisman:

The present day Indian youth is spirited yet frightened of challenges and risks. In this modern scenario when even capitalistic countries are turning towards a Socialistic approach, aren't we neglecting 'Development For All' as directed by our preamble and directive principles?


There's risk in everything. All mothers take the strongest risk, as from embryo till our delivery, every moment is risky. From infectious diseases to abortions due to unfortunate reasons, she risks her life but despite all the pain, she delivers us. If she can take such tough risks, is the job to serve our fellow citizens that risky in comparison? See the masons who works from Dawn to Dusk, breaking the stones to build a bridge, is the duty towards our fellow citizens that risky and hard?

I think that even with the slightest of positive motivation we can direct the energy of masses to Build and Develop The True Independent Socialist, Democratic Republic of Union of India.

How can we, as fellow concerned citizens, help the people of Rajghat? 

  • Please promote #SaveRajghat in whatever possible way you can!
  • Only money is not enough, carry forward the Voice of RAJGHAT so that others can hear of their fellow Indians in need.
  • As a fellow citizen, strive to give your best, in any way possible, like voluntary free education, health care services. 
  • Make people aware of their duties (Article 51-A) first, then their rights (Article 14-30). 

Let us aim to make the village economy self-sustaining to achieve GandhiJi's dream of the true Independent India, where the villages are the Temples of Economy, Polity and Society.


Authors note:
In the recently concluded event held in Jaipur by Changing Tomorrow aimed to inspire young minds, Ashwani and I were two of the guest speakers of the ChaT Youth Summit

Speakers Dr Roshan Radhakrishnan and Dr Ashwani Parashar


His inspiring words resonated with audiences young and old who were in awe of the efforts this young man was taking to improve our country. People like him inspire far more faith in the future of India than most of our political leaders and deserve to have their voices reach a larger audience.
I can do that with this blog. 

Dr Ashwani Parashar's inspiring words resonated with audiences young and old who were in awe of the efforts this young man was taking to improve our country. People like him inspire far more faith in the future India than most of our politicians leaders and deserve to have their voices reach a larger audience.


All year, I have been writing about Real Life Heroes of Kindness and Compassion from around the world who changed lives with their selfless gestures and efforts. 
On September 1, 2017, I met one in real life.

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The moving story of Chris Wright and nurse Tunde Hector: When kindness repays kindness #WATWB

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In 2014, Chris Wright was driving his family to church when he came across a woman walking in the rain in search of a gas station after her car broke down. Moved by her plight - TunDe Hector had all of $5 in her purse - Chris drove her to a gas station, paid for her gas and gave her all the money he had in his wallet. Overwhelmed, Hector cried as she watched the stranger leave, unable to repay him and never expecting to see him again.

Three years later, in 2017, Chris's mother Judy fell ill. As she deteriorated, Chris took the help of nursing aides to help look after her. Of the lot, one stood out for her devotion to Judy. It was while the family was sitting and chatting with the nursing aide a few days later that the latter told them a story of how years ago, she had been stuck in the rain after her car broke down, praying for help when a kind stranger pulled over and selflessly helped her.



Tears fell down Nurse Tunde Hector's eyes as Chris recognized her and revealed that it had been him she had encountered years ago and how the Lord he had no much faith had indeed found a way for her to help him in his time of need.

When Judy passed away on Hector's birthday, she rushed over, still in her birthday attire just to be there for the family. To the Wrights, TunDe had become family by then and for all that she had done for them during these trying times, they wanted to do more for her.

With the goal of raising $1000 (Rs 65,000) to help pay off her nursing school tuition, they secretly set up a crowdfunding page, telling the public of her kindness and loving spirit. To quote from the page: “TunDe exudes joy and lives every breath to serve people as she was designed to do by our Heavenly Father. To know her is to love her and we are all in awe of how God worked so miraculously for our paths to cross again when we needed her most.”

A week later, when they revealed to TunDe what they had done, the donations received from strangers moved by her story had crossed $35,000 (Rs 23,00,000). You can watch the moment Chris's family reveal to the emotional nurse what they had done for her here.
(Spoiler alert: Keep a tissue nearby.)




Why I want you to remember the story of Chris Wright and TunDe Hector


Chris said it best in his crowd funding page for TunDe Hector:

"Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by doing so some people have entertained angels without knowing it."  - Hebrews 13:2.



AUTHORS NOTE: 

There is a lot more kindness where that came from. 
I have compiled over 30 heroes of kindness and compassion this year.
You can find the list here


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The neo-Nazi who found redemption thanks to an unlikely friendship

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For most of his adult life, 38 year old Micheal Kent has been a neo-Nazi and part of a violent white supremacist group, the swastika tattooed on his chest while in prison a sign of his strong beliefs.

This year, he finally walked into a specialist center and voluntarily got his tattoos removed in a grueling 15 hour procedure. And it is all thanks to an unlikely friendship with his parole officer, Tiffany Whittier... a black woman.

Micheal Kent's transformation after a lifetime of racial hatred is a wonderful example of the quote by Mahatma Gandhi.  "No human being is so bad as to be beyond redemption."


Refusing to hate Kent who discriminated against 'her kind', Whittier decided she wanted to be a positive influence on him and chose to use her time beside him being his friend and making him choose happiness over hatred. Months of friendship overcame decades of personal racial beliefs as the father of two would go on to remove the Nazi banners in his house and actually put up - on her insistence - smiley faces instead.

“When you wake up and see a smiley face, you’re going to go to work and you’re going to smile.” Kent recalls Whittier telling him.

Kent now works alongside dozens of other employees in a chicken farm - the only white man of the lot - and is happy to have them as his family. And he knows he has Whittier to thank for it.

“Before all this, I wouldn’t work for anybody or with anybody that wasn’t white,” said Kent. “Now we have company parties, or they have quinceañeras, I’m the only white guy there!”

Removing the tattoos was a painful procedure but Kent agrees that it was worth the pain.

“I don’t want my kids to live the life I lived and live with hate,” said Kent. “I want my kids to know me for who I am now—a good father, a hard worker, and a good provider.”


Unknown to him, Whittier made the journey to visit Kent - who had not seen her for a year - the day after he got his tattoo removed. You can watch the lovely reunion of these unlikely friends here.



Author's note:

If we can look beyond our inner prejudices, we are all capable of a positive change. Micheal Kent's transformation after a lifetime of racial hatred is a wonderful example of the quote by Mahatma Gandhi.

"No human being is so bad as to be beyond redemption."



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Tiffany Whittier is a genuine hero of compassion. 
There is a lot more kindness where that came from.
I have compiled over 30 heroes of kindness and compassion this year.

You can find the list here

Which books/ series would you want your children to read as they start growing up?

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The theme of Nostalgia for WriteTribe's #WriteBravely blogging challenge got me thinking of the books I read growing up. Today's children have at their disposal a mobile well before they hit their teens and thus access to literally all sorts of reading material should they choose it. That makes the need to get them to read the right kind of literature really important. 

The list below is purely what got me addicted to literature as I grew up and I am sure there will be more valuable additions from your side. For me, the series' which got me started off on the joys of reading were:

  1. Hardy Boys, Nancy Drew, the Three Investigators - soft detective stories, simple language, fun mysteries with no real darkness to scare them.
  2. P.G. Wodehouse - I wish every child grew up reading this. British humour - possibly all-round literary humour - at its best. Whether it be the iconic butler Jeeves or the insanely hilarious antics of Lord Emsworth and his prize pig, the Empress, this is such a joy to read and would be perfect for a child who needs laughter growing up.
  3. Sherlock Holmes - Again, perfect reading material to also help develop the analytical mind at that important age, I feel.
  4. Amar Chitra Katha comics - What a wonderful way to invite the young child into the world of our history, mythology and even other cultures. From the old Mahabharata and Ramayana series to present day icons like singer MS Subbulakshmi and Verghese 'Amul' Kurien, what better way to let your child see the world than through these well-illustrated comics.
  5. Asterix - For me, the sense of humour and the play on words in the Asterix comics far outweigh the adventures of Tintin.
Which books/ series would you want your children to read as they start growing up?


Yes, shortly thereafter, the reading would evolve for me to the likes of Jeffrey Archer, Stephen King, Dean Koontz, Sidney Sheldon, John Connolly, Jeffrey Deaver et al. But I honestly don't think it would have been that way had I not had a good, interesting series of books to start off my journey.   

So here is my question to you: Which books/ series would you as a parent want your children to read to help develop 
a) a love for reading and 
b) a view of the world around them?

Alice in Wonderland? The Jungle Book? Have your say... I will add the best ones to the list.

Authors note:

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Other articles written during this challenge are:
The Neo-Nazi who found redemption thanks to an unlikely friendship

Which books would you like your child to read as they grow up



When Florence + the Machine sang for a terminal patient at her hospice

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Have you heard of an English indie rock band called Florence and the Machine?
No? Well, I hope you watch out for them after this.

In May 2016, teenager Karinya Chen's dream to watch her favourite band seemed so near yet so far. She had tickets to the Florence + the Machine concert being held in her hometown of Austin, Texas but unfortunately, the bone cancer she had been battling with for 6 years had taken a turn for the worse, leaving her frail and bedridden at the hospice.

When Florence found out, she decided to make that concert ticket count and so paid a visit to the Hospice Austin and give her fan a private concert of her own.


In addition to a ton of merchandise, the band sang for her (including getting Karinya to sing along with the lead singer) for almost an hour.



Karinya Chen would succumb to her illness a few months later at the age of 15. In her last interview a week before she died, she talked about how that private concert by Florence and the Machine was 'the best 45 minutes of her life.'

Authors note:

After coming across this story, I went online to check out other songs by the band. What struck me was the excellent vocal talent of lead singer Florence Welch.


This song 'Spectrum' has some amazing visuals too. Do give it a look.

I've always maintained that the difference between real singers and mere performers is how they perform unplugged. Watching Florence sing to Karinya in the Hospice Austin, it is clear she is the real deal as a singer in addition to being a real hero of kindness.



You can also find Florence singing this same song as a duet along with patient Karinya Chen here.


Authors note: 


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I am taking part in The Write Tribe Problogger October 2017 Blogging Challenge. 
Today's theme was 'Terminal'

Florence + the Machine are real-life heroes of compassion. 
There is a lot more kindness where that came from. 
I have compiled over 30 heroes of kindness and compassion this year.
You can find the list here

Student saves a life while waiting for a job interview

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College student Wil Stewart was waiting at a coffee shop for a job interview along with other prospective students when a customer began to choke on his food. Seeing the man struggling to breathe, Stewart realized the gravity of the situation and ran up to him, giving him the Heimlich maneuver till the man recovered. 

Wil chose not to mention this incident to his interviewer later on, which was ironic, considering it would have really helped secure his job. You see, he was interviewing for the position of a paramedic at the San Luis Ambulance in Sacramento, California! 

Even the interviewer only found out much later. Needless to say, Stewart got the internship.



Do not underestimate what Stewart did. Choking is a real medical emergency and cuts off oxygen supply to the lungs. 4 to 6 minutes without being able to breath and the loss of oxygen can cause brain damage with irreversible brain death in 10 minutes. 

You cannot expect to get a doctor in that time which is why it is imperative that you know how to perform the Heimlich maneuver yourself. The procedure differs based on whether you are doing it to an adult, a child, a baby, a pregnant lady or even yourself (if you are alone and start choking)



In an earlier article, I have given the detailed steps (with illustrations) for the Heimlich maneuver in various scenariosPlease do learn it or at the very least, save that page for future reference.

Someday, it can help save a life.


In the video, Wil Stewart gets felicitated and receives a standing ovation from the state President for his quick thinking that made the difference between life and death.

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10 Things your Anaesthesiologist Asks You At Your First Meeting

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16 October is World Anaesthesia Day.

This year marks 171 years since the first successful documented anaesthesia was performed for a surgery. And yet, even today, not many know what to expect when they are redirected by their doctor to meet an anaesthesiologist.

Some know I make you unconscious, some come fearful for their lives because they have heard scary tales, some... well, there are a lot of weird and whacky 'somes' to fill the list. One thing that amuses patients during their first meeting are the 'seemingly unrelated questions' we ask. 

With that in mind, I decided I would try to break it down to you so that your eyebrows don't pop up should you ever have to go meet your anaesthesiologist. 

So what are the 10 things your anaesthesiologist asks you at your first meeting?

So what are the 10 things your anaesthesiologist asks you at your first meeting?

1. What happened to you? 

The history of your present illness matters for co-relating to other diseases as well as deciding our course of anaesthesia.

2. Tell me about your past operations and medical history. 

When asking about past operations, we also ask about the type of anaesthesia given and whether there were any complications so that we can be better prepared. 

Your medical history can relate to past admissions, diagnoses for disorders like hypertension, diabetes etc which will again be important when we need to choose the drugs best suited to you and the type of anaesthesia.

3. Are you on any medication? 

Very important that you know and tell us the medicines you are / were on. Surprisingly common even with the educated class, patients are blissfully unaware of the diseases they take medicines for. 

It is always better to have the drug name (not brand name) and dosage written down in a paper safely stored in your wallet/purse beforehand, I advice. This matters because it isn't enough to say you are on medicines for (say) hypertension - different ones act differently and interact with other drugs we may give during anaesthesia. We also need to determine which drugs to stop and which to continue hours before surgery.

4. Do you have allergies? 

If you have had an allergic reaction to any food or drug in the past, please note the name. People who have allergic reactions often develop it to common drugs (eg: penicillins) and so there is a high risk the same drug may be given to you again unless you inform your doctor. 

If you cannot recall the name, at least tell the doctor what the drug was given to you for (pain, cold, an antibiotic) and the severity of the reaction (from skin rashes to difficulty in breathing)

5. The last time you had food or water. 

A question asked when the surgery is posted for the same day, this often draws stern eyebrows from the patient. Trust me, I am not trying to live vicariously by hearing descriptions of your awesome curries or desserts (okay, maybe 'I' personally am but my colleagues aren't!) 

This matters because we need to determine the duration before safe anaesthesia is provided to you without the risk of you vomiting or worse, having that same food and drink enter your lungs. The latter scenario is horribly dangerous and can be fatal. 

So - and I cannot stress this enough - be honest with us. Do not conceal from us because you may go in for a minor surgery of your thumb and end up dead by choosing not to tell us you had food an hour before the surgery. 

We have safety guidelines which differentiates even between clear and opaque drinks - so yes, you may wonder why we are asking you whether the juice was lime or pineapple.

6. Any Substance abuse? 

Alcoholic drinks, cigarettes and recreational drugs; tell us the duration and when you last had them. Some of our drugs behave differently in long standing users because of the effect the latter has had on your lungs, liver, kidneys or even heart.

7. Do you have any implants? 

Whether it be removable dentures or metallic implants, please remember to tell us. Many have suffered and died because they forgot (or we forgot to ask also, I agree). Metallic implants are an absolute NO-NO before entering MRI suites. Please never forget that. Similarly, if you have removable dentures, be prepared to hear us ask you to remove them on the day of the surgery.

8. How many flights of stairs can you climb? 

Patients who are clutching their abdomen in pain sometimes snarl when I ask them this but trust me, I am not mocking your pain. This is a primary way of estimating your heart and lung functions. It is a pre-cursor to the detailed physical examination that comes later.

9. Any recent cough, cold or flu 

Some patients get annoyed when we postpone elective surgeries to allow colds and chest infections to heal, wondering why a runny nose matters for a surgery on the feet. I agree that such surgeries may, more often than not, be done under spinal surgeries and so not involve your nose but you need to understand - we value your safety above all else. And for us, for any surgery, we always need to consider the possibility that a case done under spinal anaesthesia (SA) can become one under general anaesthesia (GA), involving your airway, at anytime due to various factors during the surgery. And if we play with your airway while it is sensitive, there is a high possibility of a bad to even deadly outcome when your airway responds adversely to our manipulations.

10. Please open your mouth

Another 'why the heck is this doctor asking me this' question! 
When you see me beginning my physical examination, you expect me to use my stethoscope and check your heart and lungs. What leaves patients quizzical is when I ask them to open their mouth as wide as possible. Again, you wonder what relation your mouth has to the surgery on your foot. 



We go back to the fact mentioned a point earlier - any case can require GA. And we need to assess your airway to determine the possibility that we may struggle to 'secure your airway safely' once we take your breath and consciousness away. This means observing the possibility of a small mouth, less space within it to maneuver our airway securing devices, restriction of neck movements, distance between various parts of your mouth and neck etc. 


There is so much more to that first meeting - the physical examination, the blood investigations, X-rays and ECGs, assessing the risks and possibly asking for further specific tests or seeking consultations with fellow specialists if we are worried about specific organs.
At the end of all this, your anaesthesiologist will give you the thumbs up while also letting you know the risks of your surgery and anaesthesia so you may consent willingly as well as the possibilities (SA, GA) available to you and what he/she recommends.



I hope you have a wonderful day and yes, while it means I and my colleagues cannot upgrade the old Honda Brio for a snazzy new Mercedes Benz, I sincerely wish you and your loved ones never have to meet me or my peers during your life in a professional capacity.

Now don't forget to thank your anaesthesiologist friends for all they do to keep you safe!




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Indian Politics: Where changing the Label Makes Poison Healthy

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There is a drink A that I do not like. I believe it is dirty and makes people sick. I make sure everyone knows I hate drink A. 
I love drink B. I do everything possible to make people drink drink B. I want the percentage of people drinking drink B to rise till drink A is out of the market entirely.
And yes, with time, people realize that drink A is dirty and so switch over to drink B. I am happy. I am winning.

Here is where things get funny. You see, drink B also makes people sick. But I refuse to condone it because I love drink B even though I am aware it is also dirty. 
I am winning.
When people question me about nefarious ingredients in drink B, I snap asking them why they did not ask the same questions about drink A (even though they did and eventually rejected Drink A for the same reasons earlier.)
I am winning.
I don't care if there is evidence drink B is bad for the health of people.
I am winning.
I don't care for helping clean it up so that people can finally become healthy.
I am winning.
When bottles of drink A simply change their labels to that of drink B, I rejoice as my percentage rises. The fact that it is still the same sickness-inducing drink A means nothing to me.
If it means I am winning, then I will gladly accept dirty drink A in the mix.



The people who get sick and die because of drink A and B are, in the end, irrelevant to me. All that matters to me is that I am winning.
As illness affects all around me, I do not care. 
I am winning.
As people continue to die, I turn a blind eye.
I am winning.
Hush. Just drink what I pour and question me no more.
Can't you see I am winning?

Authors note:

My seniors and peers tell me that I should be careful while talking about drinks in today's atmosphere. That I will lose friends, get beaten up, killed or worse - ostracized on social media.
That by questioning a drink, I am showing disobedience.

To them, I say - tough titties.
I am tired of people telling me that because we all drank from Drink A 'for a long time', we have no right to question the ingredients of drinks B, C and D. Everybody has a right to point out the flaws of any drink, irrespective of the label. 

Look beyond the labels and fight against corruption and intentional hate-inducing ingredients in the mix. Look beyond Kalmadi-Cola, Pinarayi PaperBoat, Maaza Modi and Jeera-Jaitley. Look beyond Rasna Gandhi, Bisleri Banerjee, Thumbs Up Tharoor and Limca Lalu.

When you need to see the label to decide whether you should defend or mock the deaths due to it, then understand that you don't care for the people who drink. You care only for the drink. Billions have died across the world over centuries making the same mistake and allowing their love for a drink to overrule their love for their own countrymen.
If you do not learn from history, you are doomed to repeat it.




This was my take for the prompt by #WriteTribe based on the quote "You can choose courage or you can choose comfort but you cannot have both." 

Tuberculosis: The Terrorist who kills 2 lakh Indians every year

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Though a global terrorist, he kills more Indians than any other nationality in the world. He finds us easy targets - poor, vulnerable and easily available in large quantities in sub-par, cramped localities.

Unlike most terrorists, he does not discriminate based on religion or caste. Children, elderly, pregnant women, even babies - he has no qualms in killing them all. He does not kill quickly either. He likes to take his time, teasing and torturing you, breaking you down till you cannot breathe, eat or move. Till you lose the will to live. Then he watches as you die.

India's premier medical institute, AIIMS Delhi, has a massive 1766 beds. Imagine all those beds filled with a diverse population of young and old. Now imagine all of them dead. Each and every one. Worse, imagine 125 such hospitals filled with dead people of all ages and sizes. That is what this killer does every year to India. What he has been doing for decades to India.
Financially, India lost $ 340 billion in 8 years alone because of the death and disabilities he caused.

His name is Mycobacterium tuberculosis. You know him as Tuberculosis (TB).
He is 1/1000th of a millimeter in size. And he kills more than 2 lakh Indians every year. 

See those reddish rods in this microscopic view? 
That is your tiny terrorist tuberculosis.

Look around you. Can you see at least three people? 

Well, as per the most conservative estimate, the killer is already inside at least one of you right now, lying latent and biding his time. This is no joke - there is a very good chance that if you are living in India and do a routine test, you will be positive for Tuberculosis today. The only difference is that this killer is residing in a latent form within you FOR NOW. When your immunity weakens some day in the future, the status quo will change.

Every year, 20 lakh new cases of tuberculosis are detected in India. The danger of multi-drug resistant Tuberculosis -  a form of the disease that does not respond to the normal drugs used for TB - is now a scary reality in India.

Unlike your perceived threats of what some religious leaders/fanatics and óthers'may do, Tuberculosis is a real terrorist in India. 

And we are horribly ill-equipped to deal with it with health ministries passing the buck and responsibility between state and center even as Indians die every single day. Every review of his activities shows that he is only getting stronger and more resistant to our aging methods and weapons. That we are woefully out of our depth in defeating him even a decade from now.
Worse, because this killer can neither be seen nor communalised, we actually reduce the funding for it by 25 % even as the rest of the world begs India to do more to defeat the menace of tuberculosis

We cannot keep losing more than 2 lakh Indians every year. They maybe 2 lakh strangers who mean nothing to you this year. But some year, it will be the one person who means the world to you.

Authors note:

I had written a more in-depth article a few years back begging for Tuberculosis patients to have access and availability to their medicines, both of which were not being done. Sadly, things seem to have just gotten worse.

As doctors, we know how bad the situation is in India vis-a-vis this monster Tuberculosis but our voice has rarely, if ever, counted. We need you - the general public - to wake up to the impending Tuberculosis disaster that is coming in India and demand that your health and safety be made a priority.



This was my take for the prompt by #WriteTribe based on the word 'Monster' 


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